Katherine
I stick strongly to my opinions and morals and do not waver from
them. This does not mean that I ignore [constructive] criticism - if someone has
a valid point and expresses it intelligently, I take their ideas into account
and see if I was perhaps wrong and respond appropriately. I cannot stand the
people who feel that their stance is always the correct one and who will
incessantly shove their opinions down other peoples' throats. You want me to
listen to you? Talk, don't shout, and think about what the fuck it is that you
are saying before you actually say it.
I feel that respect is earned. And just because you may have more money
than me, kids, a husband/wife, a higher education, a job as an executive, etc.
does NOT make your life more important or better than mine and/or give you the
right to walk all over other people. Asshole. People who think otherwise are not
worth my time or effort.
Another thing on respect; in order for me to respect you, you must first
respect yourself. I am tired of the people who feel that they are no good and
pretend to be someone they aren't. Be proud of who you are and don't let ANYONE
walk all over you! (Note: this does not mean be an asshole - see above.) If you
think you are no good the way you are, then why the hell would you expect me to
want to be friends with you? Suck it up and work on changing what it is that you
don't like about yourself. Yes, this takes effort, but it's a hell of a lot
better than that ugly self-loathing. Don't be an emotional leech either, that's
just not cool. I'm not your therapist and have better things to do with my time
than hear the same depressing story over and over again.
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